by Becky

We search for years and find, peruse and discard them like used goods. We assess, re-arrange and change them but we are not always successful. As a new contender comes along, it is not always clear cut, what should be done with this one? We start the cycle over and then life in some cases repeats itself. How often does that happen to you?

Numbering the years, instances and experiences gained warranted or not from these encounters is not strange, but a way of life. So what is there left to do, but wait...

Wait on the perfect year to come, the perfect occasion, the perfect time and season to bring us the perfect thing we all long for so much. What keeps this illusive creature; compilation of all things masculine and hopefully a little feminine from us? To hold us when we need it, to love us unconditionally and yet still have a level of feminine intuition to notice when something isn't right with us and give us comfort. Does such a person exist?

For some, they have already found that man or woman. For others the search still actively goes on. For others they search in silence. How do you tell who is perfect for you? What are the points on your perfection scale?

As a personal solute to someone, looking from the pools of warm eyes onto a single man, it is with distinct pleasure that this is shared to give honors to this young man, perfect or not, Mr. Tyler Perry.